This is one of the things that |I do enjoy about living in a D/s household. Of course there is always the playful bratting now and again. There is also, the reward spankings. Spankings given simply for pleasure. Not a punishment or correction. Not a maintenance or reminder. Just a sweet reward given for pleasure.
Playful bratting and being spanked for it is a lot of fun. That slap against my bottom as I walk past her, always brings a grin. But, when she tells me that I have been so good and will get a good girl spanking, my heart just sings. I know it will be on the bare, it always is. I know my backside will end up red and so wonderfully warm. I will know without looking that there is a smile on her face too. It is a fun time. It is often a very intimate time as well.
When I was brought into the bdsm lifestyle, one of the things that I was told was to ask for a spanking rather than trying to force one to happen. I was told to simply, ask. The bratting was unwelcome and unwanted. My need to be spanked was understood and taken into consideration. At the same time, I was taught that with this person, spanking was more of a reward. At first, it seemed so wrong to me to ask. Wasn't there suppose to be a situation or event that calls for a spanking? Something like, doing A + B = C? Nope, in that relationship, it was that I was to state that I was feeling the need to be spanked. When it could be done, it was.
I have carried some of this early training over into my relationship with Mickey as well. I still play around her and push those buttons that I know will likely lead to a spanking. I also simply just ask. Hearing her say too that she thinks it is time for a good girl spanking, is oh so wonderful!
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